europesugarpowerfighter
If they don’t reply to your texts — they’re not interested in you.

If they don’t call you — they’re not interested in you.

If they forget your birthday — they’re not interested in you.

If they’re hung up on their ex — they’re not interested in you.

If they’re obsessed with being single — they’re not interested in you.

If they don’t want to meet your friends — they’re not interested in you.

If they don’t want you to meet their friends — they’re not interested in you.

If they don’t ask questions about your life — they’re not interested in you.

If they don’t tell you things about their life — they’re not interested in you.

If they only speak to you when they want to have sex with you — they’re not interested in you.

If they only have sex with you when they’re drunk — they’re not interested in you.

If they say “should we just keep this between us?’ after you have sex with them — they’re not interested in you.

If they don’t have sex with you — they’re not interested in you.

If they can always find a psychobabble rationale about who “I am” or “you are” or “we are” as reason why you can’t be together — they’re not interested in you.

If they have said for more than six months that they would like to be with you “BUT” — they’re not interested in you.

And if you still need convincing — think of it this way. Think of what the real day-to-day of life is taken up by. Life is birthday parties at terrible pubs. Life is losing your credit card and the annual Melbourne Cup sweepstake in the office. Life is hen’s nights, bucks’ nights, sitting on the phone for three hours to get U2 tickets and not getting them, the apartment upstairs flooding your house, interval training, calorie counting, cancer scares, illegal mini cabs, Secret Santa, rail replacement buses and Dido albums. Dogs die, cars crash, bin liners break, contracts end, curtain rails collapse, trains get delayed, football teams lose. Divorce happens and so do earthquakes and so does An Audience With Michael Bublé. Landlords put rent up, phones get stolen and the supermarket often completely runs out of hummus.

Now, taking all of the above into account — you look me dead in the eye and tell me the truth. Do you really have enough spare energy to pursue someone who isn’t interested in you? Do you really want to waste any more time on top of all of that? No. Me neither. So give it up, my friend. It’s a loser’s game. Delete their number. Don’t go on any more dates with them. Stop lurking their Facebook page. Feels good, doesn’t it?
Dolly Alderton (via mrsfscottfitzgerald)

My friends

I have an eclectic group of friends who dont judge me but support me lol.

Quotes

"You need to get back with him even if hes married…he has power text him back in exactly one month something nonchalant."

"Have the affair your young why not?"

"How many married men have you been with lol? I’m sorry I don’t have the money to get you but we have our friendship so im good"

A woman doesn’t steal another woman’s man…he strays because his owner cant keep him on a leash. Plus I wont be young forever so I should take advantage of my youthful good looks while I’m still fresh. I mean dont get me wrong I fully intend on aging at a JLO pace. 

P.S. Obvi I only mess with wealthy good looking men married or not

finsugarqueen

culturedsb:

california-sugar-queen:

Make a setlist of your rates!

Date: 200+ $, open space, all expenses paid (meal, shopping, transportation, ect.)

Video Date: 20$x5m, 30$x10m, 40$x15m, 50$x20m, 60$x25m.

Pay-Per-Meet: 600 $, any space, any activity, all expenses paid, no allowance need be provided – just an exact number determined for each planned periodic date no less than 600.

Fly Out Visit: 1000 $, must be met before, no more than 5 day visit, all expenses paid (first class plane ride, pre-paid meals, hotel, any and all services.)

Pay-Per-Event: 700 $, any event, all expenses paid, come as guest/date/arm-candy. 

Weekly Allowance: 1000 $, dependent on scheduling, twice a week meets, all expenses paid.

Monthly Allowance: 4000$+, arrangement discussed before becoming a reality. 

This is literally just an outline I follow, not a recommended but these are the arrangements I have encountered and been able to get. Sit down in your SB books and decide to make exact numbers about what it will take to make you get dressed up and out the door for this man. I think this helps not lower your worth when you have a ballpark! 

I think this is a good idea.